Question 1

What does “set me as a seal upon thine heart” mean in this passage?

Accepted Answer

When the bride says, “Set me as a seal upon thine heart, as a seal upon thine arm,” she is asking for a settled, secure place in her beloved’s love. A seal marks ownership, value, and protection. The heart points to inner love and affection, and the arm points to outward strength and action. Spiritually, this pictures the church asking Christ for assurance that His love will not fade, and that she will always be kept in His heart and in His care. It is a prayer for lasting, unbroken closeness with Him.

Question 2

What does “love is strong as death” mean in Song of Songs 8?

Accepted Answer

“Love is strong as death; jealousy is cruel as the grave” describes how powerful and unyielding real love is. Death does not let go of those it takes, and in the same way true love holds firmly and does not easily release the one loved. The jealousy here is not petty envy but a deep, protective zeal that will not share the beloved with rivals. This points to the kind of love Christ has for His people, and the love His people grow to have for Him, a love that endures trials and cannot be lightly broken.

Question 3

What does it mean that many waters cannot quench love or drown it?

Accepted Answer

The words “Many waters cannot quench love, neither can the floods drown it” picture love as a fire that no storm can put out. The “waters” and “floods” suggest troubles, temptations, and anything that might try to wash love away. True love, especially the love between Christ and His church, may be tested by hardship, fear, or even persecution, but it is not destroyed. The verse also says that no amount of wealth can buy this love. It is precious, steadfast, and cannot be bought or sold, only given and received.

Question 4

Who is the “little sister” with no breasts in Song of Songs 8?

Accepted Answer

When the speakers say, “We have a little sister, and she hath no breasts,” they talk about someone young and not yet mature. In the spiritual sense, this pictures a younger, less developed community of believers that is not yet ready for full marriage love. The question “What shall we do for our sister in the day when she shall be spoken for?” shows care and planning for her future. God’s people are thinking about how to help this sister grow firm and pure, so that when the time comes she will be ready for a faithful, steady relationship with the beloved.

Question 5

What is meant by the wall and the door in the description of the sister?

Accepted Answer

The passage says, “If she be a wall, we will build upon her a palace of silver: and if she be a door, we will enclose her with boards of cedar.” A “wall” suggests firmness and purity, someone who can stand and keep out what should not enter. A “door” suggests openness that might need guarding. If the sister proves firm like a wall, she will be honored and adorned. If she is more open and weak, loving care and protection will surround her. It shows how God’s people should help the weak grow stable in holiness and faith.

Question 6

Why does the bride wish the beloved were like a brother in this chapter?

Accepted Answer

At the start, the bride says she wishes her beloved were like a brother who had nursed at her mother’s breasts. In their culture, a woman could show open affection to a brother in public without shame. By speaking this way, she expresses a longing for free, unhindered closeness with him, where no one would look down on her love. Spiritually, this points to the desire of the church for near, familiar fellowship with Christ, not hidden or half-hearted, but gladly shown in the open without fear or embarrassment before others.

Question 7

What is the meaning of Solomon’s vineyard at Baalhamon in this passage?

Accepted Answer

The text says Solomon had a vineyard at Baalhamon, rented out to keepers, each owing a thousand pieces of silver. Then the bride says, “My vineyard, which is mine, is before me,” and speaks of what Solomon and the keepers should receive. Solomon’s great vineyard points to something large and rich under his rule. The bride’s “vineyard” pictures her own life and gifts. She seems to say that while others manage large outward things, she gladly offers herself and her fruit directly to the beloved, keeping her first loyalty and reward in him.

Question 8

How does this passage show the relationship between Christ and the church?

Accepted Answer

This passage uses the deep love of bride and groom to picture the bond between Christ and His church. The bride leans on her beloved coming up from the wilderness, showing dependence and trust. She remembers the place where her life with him began, like spiritual birth. She asks to be a seal on his heart, showing desire for secure, lasting love. The strong language about love’s power and the guarding of the “little sister” all point to Christ’s steady love for His people and the way the church grows, matures, and stays near to Him.

Question 9

Why does the bride warn the daughters of Jerusalem not to stir up love until he pleases?

Accepted Answer

The bride charges the daughters of Jerusalem not to stir up or awaken her love until he pleases. This is a warning against forcing love, pushing feelings, or rushing what belongs to the beloved’s own timing. Spiritually, it reminds believers not to try to control or manufacture spiritual experiences, but to wait on Christ’s presence and leading. It also hints that the sweet sense of His love is something holy and should not be disturbed by carelessness or sin. It calls for patience, respect, and a quiet guarding of the fellowship He gives.

Question 10

How can believers today apply the message of Song of Songs 8?

Accepted Answer

Believers can take this chapter as a picture of how to relate to Christ. The strong images of love invite us to seek real closeness with Him, not just formal religion. Asking to be set as a seal on His heart can shape our prayers for assurance and steady faith. The words about many waters not quenching love can comfort us when trials come, reminding us that His love does not fail. The care for the “little sister” encourages us to help younger or weaker believers grow firm and protected, so they too can enjoy this deep communion.

Song of Solomon 8:1

O that thou wert as my brother, that sucked the breasts of my mother! when I should find thee without, I would kiss thee; yea, I should not be despised.

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