Question 1

What does it mean to be one of them that strike hands in this passage?

Accepted Answer

“Striking hands” is a picture of making a firm agreement, like shaking hands to seal a deal or signing your name to a promise. In this passage it means taking on someone else’s debt and agreeing to pay if they do not. The warning is not about every kind of promise, but about quickly tying yourself to other people’s debts, especially when they are careless with money or love quarrels and waste. The verse tells the reader not to join that group or copy their behavior.

Question 2

What does it mean to be a surety for debts in this proverb?

Accepted Answer

To be a surety for debts means you promise to pay what someone else owes if they cannot or will not pay. You make yourself legally and financially responsible for their debt. This proverb points out the danger of doing that when you do not have enough to cover it. It is more than just helping a friend. It can become a kind of dishonesty if you promise what you know you cannot pay, because the lender expects to be repaid and is misled by your promise.

Question 3

Why does the proverb mention taking away your bed from under you?

Accepted Answer

The bed picture shows how far things can go when you take on debt you cannot pay. If you promise to cover someone’s debt and you have nothing to pay, the creditor may take your very last things in order to recover what is owed. In that time even a person’s bed or basic coverings could be seized under strict law. The verse is asking, in a very down-to-earth way, why you would risk losing the most basic comfort you own just because you entered into a foolish promise.

Question 4

Is this passage saying it is always wrong to help someone in financial need?

Accepted Answer

This passage is not against mercy or helping the poor. Elsewhere, God’s people are called to pity and help those who truly cannot pay. The warning here is about rash and dishonest promises, like agreeing to cover a debt when you already know you cannot pay, or joining with people who misuse money and push others to sign for them. If someone is truly unable to pay because of hardship, they should be helped. But it is unwise and unfair to risk ruining your own household through careless promises.

Question 5

How does this warning about surety apply to life today?

Accepted Answer

Today this warning speaks to things like cosigning loans, taking on other people’s contracts, or living beyond your means to impress others. The point is not that you may never help someone, but that you should be honest about what you can afford and careful whom you tie yourself to. If you know you cannot cover the cost, or the person is careless or wasteful, you should not place your own family and basic needs at risk. This passage calls for wisdom, honesty, and self-control with money.

Question 6

What kind of people should we avoid becoming surety for according to this passage?

Accepted Answer

The passage warns against being among people who are known for bad handling of money and troubled lives. These can be people who have broken finances and poor reputations, who get into quarrels, or who chase their desires while leaning on others to bail them out. Such people may push friends to sign for their debts so they can keep going a little longer. The proverb says not to join that crowd. If you tie yourself to their debts, you may end up sharing in their ruin and hurting your own household.

Question 7

Why is becoming surety when you have nothing to pay considered unjust?

Accepted Answer

Promising to pay when you already know you cannot is more than foolish, it is unfair to the one who lends. The creditor trusts your word and believes there is a real chance of repayment. If you knowingly offer what you do not have, you are misleading that person and exposing them to loss. The proverb treats this as a kind of cheating, like picking your neighbor’s pocket in a quieter way. When the lender later demands payment and finds you empty-handed, they have been wronged by your empty promise.

Question 8

What does this passage teach about caring for your own household?

Accepted Answer

These verses remind the reader that they have a duty to be fair not only to others but also to their own family. If you take on debts you cannot handle, whether your own or another’s, you may end up losing the things your household needs, even something as simple as a bed. The passage pushes against living above your means and against tying your family’s future to someone else’s poor choices. It calls you to manage what you have wisely so that your household is not dragged into unnecessary poverty.

Proverbs 22:26

Be not thou one of them that strike hands, or of them that are sureties for debts.

Thirty Sayings of the Wise

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Proverbs 22:26

Be not thou one of them that strike hands, or of them that are sureties for debts.

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Thirty Sayings of the Wise

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