Question 1

What does it mean that the name of the Lord is a strong tower?

Accepted Answer

The picture of the Lord’s name as a strong tower shows God as a safe place. In old times, people ran into a strong tower during attack and were protected by its high walls. In the same way, those who trust God run to him in prayer, faith, and obedience. They do not lean first on their own strength or on money, but on who God is and what he has promised. This verse invites us to see God himself as our shelter in trouble.

Question 2

How are words like deep waters and a flowing brook?

Accepted Answer

The passage says the words of a person’s mouth are like deep waters and the wellspring of wisdom like a flowing brook. Deep waters picture depth and richness, not just shallow talk. A flowing brook is fresh and steady, giving life to those who drink. When a person is truly wise, their words are not empty or careless. They can help, guide, and refresh others. This encourages us to speak thoughtfully so our words bring good, not harm.

Question 3

What does it mean that death and life are in the power of the tongue?

Accepted Answer

Saying that death and life are in the power of the tongue shows how serious our words are. What we say can crush a person’s spirit, spread lies, or stir up fights, which leads toward “death” in relationships and even in someone’s inner life. But words can also comfort, correct gently, give truth, and point people to God, which leads toward “life.” Those who enjoy talking will taste the results of their words, whether good or bad. So we should speak with care and fear of God.

Question 4

Why is a fool’s mouth called his destruction?

Accepted Answer

The passage explains that a fool’s lips lead him into quarrels and even “call for strokes.” His mouth is his destruction and a snare for his own soul. This means a foolish person talks without thought or humility. He loves to show off his own heart instead of seeking understanding. Such talk often stirs anger, invites punishment, and brings shame. The picture warns us that our own words can turn back on us. Wisdom begins with listening and guarding the tongue.

Question 5

How does this passage warn against pride and praise humility?

Accepted Answer

The sayings teach that before a fall, the heart is proud, and before honor comes humility. Pride here is a lifted-up heart that trusts in self, riches, or status, and looks down on others. That path ends in shame and ruin. Humility is the lowly, honest view of oneself before God and people. It is ready to listen, to repent, and to take the lower place. God in time brings such a person to honor. These verses invite us to leave pride and seek a humble heart.

Question 6

What does it mean that gossip’s words go down into the innermost parts?

Accepted Answer

The words of a talebearer are described as wounds that go down into the innermost parts of the belly. This shows how gossip and secret talk can pierce very deeply. People often believe such words quickly, and the hurt settles inside, affecting how they think and feel about others. It is not just surface harm. The picture warns us both not to spread such stories and not to feed on them. Instead, we should cover faults in love and speak in ways that heal and restore.

Question 7

How does this passage contrast trust in wealth with trust in God?

Accepted Answer

The sayings set two pictures side by side. The Lord’s name is a strong tower, where the righteous run and are safe. In contrast, the rich person sees wealth as a strong city and high wall, but this is only in his own mind. Riches feel like protection, yet they cannot save from judgment, death, or inner despair. Trust in God is real safety; trust in money is a false wall that can fall at any time. The passage calls us to shift our confidence from wealth to the Lord.

Question 8

What does it mean that a brother offended is harder to win than a strong city?

Accepted Answer

The verse says a brother offended is harder to be won than a strong city, and their quarrels are like the bars of a castle. Once close trust is broken, the other person may shut himself up like a fortress. The hurt and pride make peace difficult, like trying to break iron bars. This warns us to be careful not to wrong those closest to us, and if we have, to seek peace early. It also helps us be patient when working through deep conflict, knowing it may take time and gentle effort.

Question 9

How should someone today apply these sayings about speaking and listening?

Accepted Answer

These sayings call us to slow down and listen before answering, to avoid gossip, and to remember how powerful words are. In daily life this might mean waiting to hear a full story before judging, refusing to pass on private talk, and choosing gentle words when we are angry. It also means using our tongue to bless, encourage, and speak truth kindly. By doing this, we walk in wisdom, guard our own soul, and help build up the people around us instead of tearing them down.

Proverbs 18:1

Through desire a man, having separated himself, seeketh and intermeddleth with all wisdom.

The Selfishness of the Unfriendly

The Selfishness of the Unfriendly

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Proverbs 18:1

Through desire a man, having separated himself, seeketh and intermeddleth with all wisdom.

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The Selfishness of the Unfriendly

The Selfishness of the Unfriendly

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