Question 1

What is the main teaching about vows in this passage?

Accepted Answer

This passage teaches that promises made to God are serious and are not to be taken lightly. If a man makes a vow or binding oath, he must do exactly what he has said. His word is not to be broken or treated as empty. The text also shows that vows must be lawful and in line with God’s will. A vow that would lead someone into sin does not truly bind the soul. Overall, it calls people to speak carefully and to mean what they say before God.

Question 2

How did a father’s decision affect his daughter’s vows?

Accepted Answer

If a young woman living in her father’s house made a vow to God, it only stood if her father agreed. When he heard about it, if he stayed silent that same day, his silence counted as approval, and her vow became binding. If he spoke against it that day and refused it, the vow was cancelled. In that case she was forgiven, and she was not held guilty for not keeping it, because she was under her father’s authority and could not act as if she were on her own.

Question 3

What authority did a husband have over his wife’s vows?

Accepted Answer

A husband had a similar role to a father. If his wife made a vow or a binding oath and he heard it, he could either let it stand or make it void. If he stayed quiet when he first heard it, the vow was confirmed. If on that day he clearly refused it, the vow no longer bound her, and God forgave her. If he waited and cancelled it later, after keeping silent at first, the guilt for breaking it fell on him, because by his silence he had already allowed it.

Question 4

Why are widows and divorced women treated differently?

Accepted Answer

Widows and divorced women are treated as standing on their own. They are no longer under a husband’s authority, so there is no one who can cancel their vows for them. Any vow or binding oath they make “shall stand against her,” meaning they are fully responsible to keep it. This guards against someone using a later marriage or change in status as an excuse to escape a promise made to God. The time when the vow was spoken is what counts, not what happens afterward.

Question 5

What does it mean to “bind the soul” with a vow?

Accepted Answer

To “bind the soul” means to tie yourself to a promise before God so that you are no longer free to act as you please in that matter. The person takes on an extra duty that God did not first require, such as special offerings, periods of fasting, or other acts of devotion. The passage shows that such self-binding is serious. Words spoken in prayer are not empty. When someone binds their soul in this way, they are expected to follow through, unless God Himself releases them through the proper authority.

Question 6

Why does this passage say God will forgive the woman when a vow is cancelled?

Accepted Answer

When a father or husband cancels a woman’s vow on the day he hears it, God says He will forgive her. This shows that she may have spoken rashly or without fully remembering her place in the family, yet God does not hold her guilty when her authority overrules the promise. The responsibility then rests with the one who had the right to confirm or cancel. This is meant to calm her conscience so she is not troubled for failing to keep a vow that she was never truly free to make on her own.

Question 7

What does this passage teach about family authority and responsibility?

Accepted Answer

The passage teaches that God recognizes order within the family. Fathers have real authority over daughters living at home, and husbands have real authority over their wives. With that authority comes responsibility. They must speak up quickly if they do not agree with a vow, instead of staying silent and then changing their minds later. If they confirm a vow by silence and then try to cancel it afterward, they bear the guilt. Authority is not about selfish control, but about wise care for the household’s promises to God.

Question 8

How can these laws about vows apply to believers today?

Accepted Answer

The setting is different now, but some lessons still carry over. First, our words to God matter. We should not make hasty promises in prayer or in times of emotion, and then forget them. Second, this passage reminds us that our personal zeal should not ride over our duties in the home. Commitments that affect others should be made with their knowledge and support. Finally, it shows that leaders in a family carry weight before God for the choices they make and the promises they allow or forbid.

Numbers 30:1

And Moses spake unto the heads of the tribes concerning the children of Israel, saying, This is the thing which the Lord hath commanded.

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Numbers 30:1

And Moses spake unto the heads of the tribes concerning the children of Israel, saying, This is the thing which the Lord hath commanded.

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