Question 1

What was the mother of Zebedee’s children asking Jesus for?

Accepted Answer

The mother of James and John came to Jesus with her sons, bowed before him, and asked for a very high honor. She wanted one son to sit at Jesus’ right hand and the other at his left in his kingdom. In simple terms, she was asking that her sons would have the top places of authority and glory beside Jesus. Her request shows that she believed Jesus would reign as king, but she was thinking in terms of earthly rank and power, not yet understanding that his kingdom would come through suffering and the cross.

Question 2

What does it mean to drink the cup and be baptized with Jesus’ baptism?

Accepted Answer

When Jesus spoke of drinking his cup and being baptized with his baptism, he was talking about suffering. In the Bible, a cup can picture the portion someone must take, either joy or judgment, and here it points to the pain and trials Jesus was about to face. The baptism picture shows being overwhelmed or plunged into these sufferings. Jesus was asking James and John if they were ready to share in the hardships and persecution that would come with following him, not just the glory they were hoping for.

Question 3

Why did Jesus say the places on his right and left are not his to give?

Accepted Answer

Jesus told them that, although they would share in his sufferings, the specific places at his right and left were not his to hand out as if by personal favor. Instead, these places are prepared by the Father for those he has chosen. This shows that honor in God’s kingdom is not gained by pushing for position, family ties, or personal ambition. It rests on God’s wise plan and his preparation. Jesus also shows his humility in his human role, submitting to the Father’s will and timing in how glory is given.

Question 4

Why were the other ten disciples angry with the two brothers?

Accepted Answer

When the other ten disciples heard what James and John had asked for, they were upset with them. Their anger shows that the same drive for status was in their own hearts too. They felt that the brothers were trying to get ahead of them and grab the best places. This reaction uncovers how ambition and rivalry can quickly bring tension and division, even among close followers of Jesus. Jesus uses their anger as a chance to call them all together and teach them a different way, where greatness is found in serving, not in competing for rank.

Question 5

What does Jesus mean by princes of the Gentiles exercising dominion?

Accepted Answer

Jesus points to how rulers among the nations usually act. The princes of the Gentiles use their power to “exercise dominion” and show their authority over others. In other words, they rule from the top down, often in a harsh or proud way, making their greatness felt. Jesus then says, “It shall not be so among you.” His followers are not to copy this pattern of leadership. Instead of using position to control people, those who lead in his kingdom are called to humble service, putting others first rather than seeking to be above them.

Question 6

What does it mean that whoever wants to be great must be a servant?

Accepted Answer

Jesus turns the usual idea of greatness upside down. He says that if someone wants to be great among his followers, that person must become a minister, a servant to others. If someone wants to be first, that person must be like a slave. This does not mean pretending to serve so we can later be honored. It means truly taking the low place, caring for others’ needs, and letting go of the hunger for recognition. In Jesus’ kingdom, greatness is measured by how much we love and serve, not by titles or positions.

Question 7

What does this passage teach about Jesus giving his life a ransom for many?

Accepted Answer

At the end of this passage, Jesus explains his own mission. He says the Son of man came not to be served but to serve, and to give his life a ransom for many. A ransom is the price paid to set someone free. Jesus is saying that his death will be a willing sacrifice to free people from the guilt and power of sin. His greatest act of serving is laying down his life for others. This shows that the heart of his kingdom is self-giving love, and that our service rests on what he has already done for us.

Question 8

How can this teaching on greatness and service apply to my life today?

Accepted Answer

This passage calls you to check your own heart about honor, recognition, and control. Instead of asking, “How can I get ahead?” it pushes you to ask, “How can I serve?” In family, work, church, and friendships, following Jesus means taking the lower place, being ready to do unnoticed tasks, and accepting that faithfulness may bring hardship. You do not earn God’s love by serving, but because Jesus served you first and gave his life for you, you are now free to serve others without needing to prove yourself by status or praise.

Matthew 20:20

Then came to him the mother of Zebedee’s children with her sons, worshipping him, and desiring a certain thing of him.

A Mother’s Request

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Matthew 20:20

Then came to him the mother of Zebedee’s children with her sons, worshipping him, and desiring a certain thing of him.

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A Mother’s Request

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