Question 1

What was happening when Jesus said, "Who is my mother and who are my brethren"?

Accepted Answer

Jesus was in the middle of talking to a crowd inside a house. He had been answering hard questions and facing pushback from religious leaders, but he kept teaching ordinary people who wanted to listen. While he was still speaking, his mother and his brothers arrived and stood outside, asking to talk with him. Someone in the crowd passed the message on to Jesus. Instead of stopping his teaching to go out to them, Jesus used that moment as a lesson about what kind of relationship matters most in God’s kingdom.

Question 2

Why did Jesus not go out to see his mother and brothers right away?

Accepted Answer

Jesus was not being cold or uncaring toward his family. He cared about proper respect for parents and relatives, and he fulfilled those duties. But at that moment he was doing his Father’s work, teaching people about God. He refused to let even good, natural ties pull him away from that calling. By staying with the crowd, he showed that when family expectations clash with serving God, God’s will comes first. He turned the interruption into a chance to teach that spiritual ties, formed by faith and obedience, are even closer than blood ties.

Question 3

What does it mean to "do the will of my Father" in this passage?

Accepted Answer

Here, doing the will of the Father is not about perfect, sinless obedience. No one but Jesus has ever kept God’s law that way. The will of the Father, as Jesus explains elsewhere, is that people see the Son, believe in him, and receive eternal life. Real faith then leads to a life that listens to God’s word and aims to obey it. So those who do the Father’s will are people who trust Jesus, receive new life by the Spirit, and show that faith by a sincere desire to follow what God says in everyday life.

Question 4

How can someone today be part of Jesus’ "brother, sister, and mother"?

Accepted Answer

According to Jesus’ own words, anyone who does his Father’s will is counted as his closest family. That begins with believing in Jesus, trusting that he is the Son of God and the Savior, and turning from sin to him. God then works in a person’s heart so that they want to obey his word. As they hear and do what God says, even with many failures, they show themselves to belong to Christ. Jesus treats such people as dear to him as a brother, sister, or mother, sharing his name, his care, and a place with him forever.

Question 5

Does this passage mean Jesus did not care about his real family?

Accepted Answer

No, this passage does not mean Jesus rejected his earthly family. Elsewhere he shows real care for his mother and respect for family order. Here he is making a comparison. In a choice between pleasing family and doing his Father’s work, he puts his Father first. He also wants people not to think of him mainly in human terms, but as the one who brings new spiritual life. So he lowers the importance of physical ties compared to spiritual ones, without denying them. He teaches that the closest and lasting bond is with those united to him by faith.

Question 6

What does this passage teach about the idea of spiritual family?

Accepted Answer

This passage shows that Jesus builds a new kind of family made up of all who believe in him and follow God’s will. Spiritual family is not based on bloodline, ethnicity, or natural closeness, but on faith and obedience that come from the Spirit’s work. Jesus calls such people his brother, sister, and mother, which pictures deep love, honor, and nearness. It means believers share his name, his image, and his household. This helps explain why relationships among believers can be very deep, even when they are not related by blood.

Question 7

Why can this passage feel hard when family expectations conflict with faith?

Accepted Answer

This passage can feel painful because many people love their families deeply and face real pressure to put family wishes before following Jesus. Here Jesus makes clear that God’s will must come first, even when relatives do not understand. Faithful readers have felt the weight of that. At the same time, the passage gives comfort. It shows that no one who trusts and obeys Christ is left alone. They are brought into a real family where Jesus himself calls them brother, sister, and mother, and where other believers share that bond.

Question 8

How should this teaching shape a believer’s priorities and relationships?

Accepted Answer

This teaching calls believers to respect and love their earthly families, but not to place those ties above God’s will. When family requests would pull someone away from obeying Christ or listening to his word, Jesus’ example shows that the Father’s work comes first. It also invites believers to value their church family, not as a loose group, but as people Jesus himself calls his brothers and sisters. Practically, this means making time for hearing and doing God’s word, even when it costs comfort, and supporting other believers as true family in the Lord.

Matthew 12:46

While he yet talked to the people, behold, his mother and his brethren stood without, desiring to speak with him.

Jesus’ Mother and Brothers

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Matthew 12:46

While he yet talked to the people, behold, his mother and his brethren stood without, desiring to speak with him.

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Jesus’ Mother and Brothers

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