Question 1

What does Jesus mean by hating father, mother, and even your own life?

Accepted Answer

The word “hate” here is a strong way of saying that our love for Jesus must be greater than our love for anyone else, even our closest family and our own lives. He is not telling us to feel anger or cruelty toward our family. Elsewhere, God tells us to love others. Jesus is saying that when there is a choice between Him and family, comfort, or safety, He must come first. If those dear to us try to pull us away from Him, we must choose Him over them.

Question 2

Why does Jesus say a disciple must bear his cross?

Accepted Answer

When Jesus speaks of bearing a cross, He is pointing to shame, pain, and loss that come from following Him. A cross was an instrument of death. To carry a cross means being ready to face rejection, hardship, and even death for His sake. This is not about small daily annoyances, but about being willing to suffer because you belong to Him. A true disciple does not follow Jesus only when life is easy, but stays with Him even when it is costly to do so.

Question 3

What is the meaning of the builder who counts the cost before building a tower?

Accepted Answer

The picture of a man planning to build a tower shows that following Jesus should not be a thoughtless decision. A wise builder first sits down, counts the cost, and asks if he can finish the job. In the same way, a person who wants to follow Christ should think about what this will mean: giving up sin, facing people’s dislike, losing comforts, and denying self. Jesus is warning against a shallow start that never lasts, which ends in shame when the “building” of a life with Him is left half-done.

Question 4

Why does Jesus compare discipleship to a king going to war?

Accepted Answer

The king going to war knows he faces a stronger enemy, so he first sits down to think if he can meet him or if he must seek peace. This picture shows that following Jesus is like entering a long and hard fight against sin, the world, and the devil. It is not for those who expect an easy life. Jesus wants people to think ahead so they are not surprised by hardship and do not give up when things get hard. It calls us to be prepared and to depend on God’s strength in this battle.

Question 5

What does it mean to forsake all that you have to be Jesus’ disciple?

Accepted Answer

To forsake all does not always mean you must sell everything or leave your family. It means your heart must be free, ready to let go of anything if Jesus asks for it. He must be worth more to you than money, comfort, plans, or even life itself. A person who clings to possessions or relationships in such a way that they will not obey Christ has not really forsaken all. True self-denial happens first in the heart, where Christ is loved above every other gift.

Question 6

What was happening when Jesus spoke these hard words to the crowd?

Accepted Answer

Large crowds were traveling with Jesus, many hoping for earthly benefits or a powerful kingdom they could see. Jesus did not soften His message to keep them. Instead, He turned and told them clearly what following Him truly involves. He wanted them to understand that being His disciple is not about comfort or social gain, but about deep loyalty and self-denial. These words sift the crowd, separating shallow followers from those ready to walk with Him through hardship.

Question 7

Why does this passage sound so harsh and difficult?

Accepted Answer

This passage sounds harsh because Jesus uses strong words and serious pictures. He does this on purpose so people will not follow Him lightly or for selfish reasons. He wants them to know that discipleship involves loss, conflict, and the cross. At the same time, He is not trying to drive people away from salvation, but to make sure they know what they are choosing. When we see our own weakness, we are meant to lean on God, who gives the strength and help we lack.

Question 8

How does counting the cost of discipleship apply to believers today?

Accepted Answer

Counting the cost today means taking time to think honestly about what following Jesus may bring: strained relationships, being misunderstood, loss of status, or even danger in some places. It means not promising God quick, shallow devotion, but offering Him your whole life, whatever He sends. This passage calls believers to steady, thoughtful commitment instead of emotional ups and downs. It pushes us to put Christ first in choices about work, family, money, and daily obedience.

Question 9

What does this passage teach about the difference between true and false disciples?

Accepted Answer

This passage shows that true disciples stick with Jesus even when it costs them dearly, while false disciples follow only while it suits them. True disciples love Jesus more than family, possessions, and their own lives. They take up the cross and keep following when mocked, pressured, or hurt. False disciples may start well but fall away when trouble or loss appears. Jesus’ words test our hearts: do we want Him for who He is, or only for what we hope to gain from Him?

Luke 14:25

And there went great multitudes with him: and he turned, and said unto them,

The Cost of Discipleship

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Luke 14:25

And there went great multitudes with him: and he turned, and said unto them,

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The Cost of Discipleship

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