Question 1

Why did Jesus ask Peter three times, "Lovest thou me"?

Accepted Answer

Jesus had heard Peter deny him three times on the night of his trial. Now, after the resurrection, he asks Peter three times, “Lovest thou me?” This is not to shame Peter, but to restore him. Each question gives Peter a chance to answer with love where he had failed before. The threefold question and answer match the three denials and clear them away. By the end, Peter knows he is forgiven and trusted again, and the others see that Jesus has restored him to his work.

Question 2

What does Jesus mean by "Feed my lambs" and "Feed my sheep"?

Accepted Answer

When Jesus tells Peter, “Feed my lambs” and “Feed my sheep,” he is speaking about caring for believers. Lambs points to the younger and weaker ones, sheep to the whole flock. To feed them is to teach them God’s word, guide them, and care for their souls. Jesus is the true shepherd, but he gives Peter and other servants the task of looking after his people. Real care for the church is not about power or titles, but about helping people grow in faith.

Question 3

What is the meaning of "lovest thou me more than these"?

Accepted Answer

When Jesus asks, “Lovest thou me more than these?” he is likely reminding Peter of his earlier claim that he would stay faithful even if the others fell away. Now Peter no longer compares himself with the others. He simply appeals to Jesus’ knowledge of his heart and says, “Yea, Lord; thou knowest that I love thee.” The point is that love for Jesus, not pride in being better than others, is what fits a person to serve. Christ wants humble love, not bold claims about ourselves.

Question 4

Why was Peter grieved when Jesus asked the third time?

Accepted Answer

Peter was grieved because the third question reminded him of his three denials. It felt to him as if his love were being doubted. This stirred up the pain of his failure, but it also drew out a deeper confession. He does not lean on his own self-confidence anymore. Instead he says, “Lord, thou knowest all things; thou knowest that I love thee.” His grief shows real repentance and tenderness. Through that sorrow, Jesus lifts him up and sets him again in loving service.

Question 5

What does Peter’s restoration teach about serving after failure?

Accepted Answer

Peter’s story shows that real failure does not put a believer beyond Christ’s reach. Peter had denied even knowing Jesus, yet the risen Lord seeks him out, questions him gently, and restores him. The lesson is that service in the church must grow from honest love for Christ, not from a spotless record or pride. When someone has fallen but truly repents, Jesus can still use them. Their past sin is not erased from memory, but it no longer has the last word over their calling.

Question 6

What does this passage teach about Jesus’ care for his people?

Accepted Answer

This passage shows how precious believers are to Jesus. He calls them “my lambs” and “my sheep,” and he ties Peter’s love for him directly to how Peter will care for them. To look after the weak, to teach, to comfort, and to guide his people is counted by Jesus as love to himself. He does not leave his flock without care; he appoints shepherds under him and gives them this clear task. At the same time, those who harm or neglect the flock stand against his heart.

Question 7

How does Jesus’ question, "Lovest thou me?", apply to church leaders today?

Accepted Answer

For anyone who leads or teaches in the church, Jesus’ question, “Lovest thou me?” comes before every task. The work is often hard and can be thankless. Some are weak, some stubborn, some slow to learn. Without real love for Christ, people will give up, turn it into a job, or seek their own gain. This passage shows that love for Jesus must come first, and that caring for his people is the main way that love shows itself in ministry, through steady teaching and patient care.

Question 8

How can ordinary believers apply "Feed my sheep" in daily life?

Accepted Answer

Even if someone is not a pastor, the heart of this call still speaks to them. Loving Jesus means caring about those who belong to him. Ordinary believers can “feed” others by sharing simple truths from Scripture, praying with those who are weak, encouraging new believers, and not looking down on those who struggle. When we help another Christian hold on to Jesus and grow in trust and obedience, we are, in a small way, doing what Jesus told Peter to do: caring for his flock.

John 21:15

So when they had dined, Jesus saith to Simon Peter, Simon, son of Jonas, lovest thou me more than these? He saith unto him, Yea, Lord; thou knowest that I love thee. He saith unto him, Feed my lambs.

Jesus and Peter

The Love Motivation

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John 21:15

So when they had dined, Jesus saith to Simon Peter, Simon, son of Jonas, lovest thou me more than these? He saith unto him, Yea, Lord; thou knowest that I love thee. He saith unto him, Feed my lambs.

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Jesus and Peter

The Love Motivation

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