Question 1

Who was Queen Vashti and what was she doing in this passage?

Accepted Answer

Queen Vashti is the wife of King Ahasuerus. While the king is holding a great feast for his officials and people, she is also holding a separate feast for the women in the royal house. This fits the custom where men and women did not usually feast together in public. Her feast takes place inside the palace, which kept the women out of open view. So when the story begins, she is acting as queen, hosting the women, not standing in the main hall with the king and his male guests.

Question 2

Why did King Ahasuerus call for Vashti during the feast?

Accepted Answer

On the seventh day of the feast, after many days of drinking and display of wealth, the king’s heart was merry with wine. In that state, he ordered his seven chamberlains to bring Vashti before him wearing the royal crown. His purpose was to show the people and princes her beauty, because she was very attractive. The order was less about honoring her as a person and more about using her beauty to impress his guests, which was unwise and not fitting for a modest wife and queen.

Question 3

Why did Queen Vashti refuse to come when the king called her?

Accepted Answer

The text simply says that Vashti refused to come. This has been understood in more than one way. Some think she was proud and disdained the command. Others see her refusal as a way to guard her modesty and dignity, since the king was drunk and wanted to display her beauty before a crowd, against normal custom for wives. She may also have feared shame later if she yielded to a foolish order. Whatever her motives, her “no” clashed with the king’s public command and stirred up his anger.

Question 4

What does this passage show about drunkenness and anger?

Accepted Answer

Here the king rules a huge empire, yet he cannot rule his own spirit. His heart is merry with wine, and in that state he gives a rash command about his wife. When she refuses, he becomes very angry and his anger burns in him. This shows how drinking to excess can cloud judgment and lead to shameful or harsh decisions. It also warns that great power without self-control is dangerous, and that anger stirred by wounded pride can lead to harmful choices in family and public life.

Question 5

What does Vashti’s refusal teach about modesty and dignity?

Accepted Answer

Vashti is asked to appear so her beauty can be shown off before a hall of drinking men. The request goes against normal standards where wives were kept from such public display. By refusing, she does not let herself be treated like a concubine or entertainer. Even if some pride may have been mixed in, her choice points to the idea that a woman’s honor should not be traded for male praise. It quietly reminds readers that modesty and personal dignity matter more than pleasing a crowd.

Question 6

How does this story reflect marriage and authority in the home?

Accepted Answer

The king issues a public command to his wife through servants, and she openly refuses. This exposes tension between a husband’s authority and a wife’s sense of dignity. Later in the chapter, advisers fear that other wives will copy Vashti and despise their husbands. So the story shows how public conflicts in a marriage can affect others. At the same time, the king’s drunken, self-serving order is shown as unwise. The passage urges respect for order in the home, but also hints that authority should not be used to shame a spouse.

Question 7

What was happening culturally when Vashti was asked to appear?

Accepted Answer

In that culture, royal wives were usually kept out of public view, especially from large feasts filled with men and wine. Men might bring concubines or entertainers to such gatherings, but not their honored wives. So when the king, in a drunken state, wants to show Vashti’s beauty to all the people and princes, he is crossing a line of normal custom. That helps explain why her being summoned felt like an indignity. It also shows how luxury and drink can push people to ignore their own standards.

Question 8

How can this passage guide believers today in handling honor and authority?

Accepted Answer

This passage does not give direct commands, but it gives a picture to think about. Authority used carelessly, especially under the influence of alcohol or pride, harms relationships. Ahasuerus treats his wife as something to display, not as a person to honor. Vashti, on the other hand, will not let herself be shamed in public. For believers today, this points to leading with self-control and respect, guarding the dignity of others, and avoiding choices, especially in public, that expose loved ones to shame.

Esther 1:9

Also Vashti the queen made a feast for the women in the royal house which belonged to king Ahasuerus.

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Esther 1:9

Also Vashti the queen made a feast for the women in the royal house which belonged to king Ahasuerus.

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