Question 1

What is happening in this passage about marriage and accusations?

Accepted Answer

This passage describes several legal cases in Israel dealing with marriage and sexual sin. It starts with a husband who marries a woman and then claims she was not a virgin. If his charge is false, he is punished, fined, and must stay married to her. If it is true that she deceived him, she is put to death. The passage then moves to cases of adultery, sex with a betrothed woman in a city or a field, and sex with an unbetrothed virgin, explaining who is guilty, who is a victim, and what each penalty should be.

Question 2

What are the “tokens of virginity” mentioned in this passage?

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The “tokens of virginity” refer to physical signs kept from the wedding night, usually a cloth with blood that showed the bride had been a virgin when the marriage was first consummated. If a husband later claimed his wife was not a virgin, her parents could bring this cloth before the city elders as proof she had been chaste. This protected an innocent woman from false charges and shame, and it warned husbands not to invent lies just to get rid of their wives or damage their names.

Question 3

Why is a false accusation against a wife punished so strongly?

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A false accusation against a wife was treated very seriously because it harmed both her and her family’s honor, and it attacked the trust at the heart of marriage. If a man lied to the elders and tried to ruin his wife’s name, he was beaten, fined a large sum of silver, and forbidden ever to divorce her. This showed that a husband could not lightly play with his wife’s reputation. It also taught the community that a person’s good name, especially a woman’s chastity, must not be trampled by lies.

Question 4

Why is adultery punished by death in this passage?

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Adultery is punished by death here because marriage is treated as a holy covenant before God, not just a private arrangement. When a man lies with another man’s wife, both have broken that covenant and harmed the family and the wider community. The repeated phrase “so shalt thou put away evil” shows that this sin was seen as a threat to the moral life of Israel, not only to the couple involved. The death penalty warned everyone to take faithfulness in marriage very seriously and not treat it as a small matter.

Question 5

How does this passage distinguish between consent and force?

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The passage makes a clear difference between a woman who agrees to sin and a woman who is forced. If a betrothed woman is found in a city with a man and does not cry out, both are treated as guilty, as if she consented. But if she is found in a field where no one could hear her cry, she is treated as a victim and is not punished at all, while the man is put to death. This shows that God does not blame someone for what is forced on them, but only for the wrong they willingly choose.

Question 6

What happens when a man lies with an unbetrothed virgin in this passage?

Accepted Answer

When a man has sex with a virgin who is not betrothed, and they are found out, he must pay the girl’s father fifty shekels of silver and marry her. He is not allowed to divorce her all his days. This payment and lifelong bond act as both compensation and a strong warning. The man cannot treat the girl lightly or walk away from the damage he has done. The law presses him to take responsibility and shows that sexual acts are tied to lasting duty, not casual pleasure.

Question 7

Why does the law say the innocent woman has “no sin worthy of death”?

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When it speaks of the betrothed woman forced in the field, the law says she has “no sin worthy of death” to make it clear that she is not guilty. Her situation is compared to someone attacked and killed by another person. Just as the victim of murder is not charged with sin, this woman is not blamed for what was done to her against her will. This shows that God judges rightly, sees the difference between victim and offender, and does not put the same burden on those who suffer harm as on those who cause it.

Question 8

What does it mean that a man must not take his father’s wife?

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The closing command says a man must not take his father’s wife or uncover his father’s skirt. This refers to having sexual relations with his stepmother. Such a union crosses the clear boundaries God set for family life. It dishonors the father and brings shame on the family. This law fits with other commands that forbid incest and guard respect within the household. It teaches that not every relationship is open for marriage or sex, and that some ties, especially within the family, must be kept pure and honored.

Question 9

What does this passage show about God’s character and justice?

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This passage shows God as a defender of truth, marriage, and the vulnerable. He punishes lies that destroy a woman’s name, holds both men and women responsible when they choose adultery, and protects those who are forced or slandered. The laws may feel hard to read today, but they tell us God cares about what happens in homes, in secret places like fields, and in public places like city gates. He wants sin exposed and removed, and he also wants the innocent cleared and not left under a cloud of blame.

Question 10

How can a modern reader approach these hard laws today?

Accepted Answer

A modern reader can approach these laws by first seeing the main things they protect: honesty, faithfulness in marriage, the safety of women, and the good name of innocent people. The punishments were given to a specific nation at a specific time, but the values behind them still matter. We can learn to take our promises seriously, guard other people’s reputations, refuse to excuse sexual sin, and listen carefully to victims. This passage can also move us to be grateful that God cares deeply about justice and purity.

Deuteronomy 22:13

¶ If any man take a wife, and go in unto her, and hate her,

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¶ If any man take a wife, and go in unto her, and hate her,

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