Question 1

What kind of son is described as stubborn and rebellious here?

Accepted Answer

The son in this passage is not a small child who struggles or is slow to understand. He is an older son who is hard in his will, proud, and refuses to be guided. He ignores his parents’ voice, pushes away their warnings, and rejects correction even after they have tried to chasten him. He brings shame and grief to his family and wastes what they have by greedy, drunken living. The picture is of someone set on a wild, wasteful life who will not be turned, not just a child who sometimes disobeys.

Question 2

Why were the parents required to bring the rebellious son to the elders?

Accepted Answer

The parents were not allowed to take justice into their own hands. They had to bring their son to the elders at the city gate, where public cases were heard. There they had to speak openly: “This our son is stubborn and rebellious.” This protected the son from secret hatred or rash anger at home, because the case had to be heard and judged in front of others. It also showed that the sin was not just against the parents, but against the order God set for the whole community.

Question 3

What does it mean that the son is a glutton and a drunkard?

Accepted Answer

Calling the son a glutton and a drunkard shows the kind of life he has chosen. He gives himself to eating and drinking in a greedy, uncontrolled way. This likely goes with ignoring his parents’ warnings about such sins. It may also be the cause of his hard heart and rebellion, because drunkenness dulls the mind and weakens any respect for God’s commands or family authority. The point is not that he slipped once, but that he is settled in this wasteful way of living and will not change when lovingly corrected.

Question 4

Why is the punishment in this passage so severe?

Accepted Answer

The punishment is death by stoning, carried out by the men of the city after judgment. This sounds very hard to us. In this law, God shows how serious it is to despise parents and to live in open, stubborn sin that refuses all correction. A son like this was seen as a threat to family and society, not just a private problem. The passage says, “so shalt thou put evil away from among you,” and that all Israel would hear and fear. The severe sentence was meant to stop evil early and warn others.

Question 5

What does the phrase “so shalt thou put evil away from among you” mean?

Accepted Answer

This phrase appears several times in these laws. Here it means that this kind of hardened rebellion must not be allowed to grow inside God’s people. If someone in the community tears down basic order and refuses every attempt to correct him, the sin affects more than just one home. By removing such a person after proper judgment, the community removes the open evil that was polluting it. It is about keeping God’s people from becoming used to serious sin and treating it as normal.

Question 6

Why does the passage say that all Israel shall hear and fear?

Accepted Answer

The law was meant to be known, not hidden. When such a sentence was carried out, word would spread through Israel. Hearing what happened to a stubborn, rebellious son was meant to put a holy fear in others. Young people would see that dishonoring parents, wasting their lives in greed and drunkenness, and refusing correction were not small matters. This fear was not meant to crush people, but to keep them from walking down the same hardened path that leads to such a sad end.

Question 7

How does this passage show the seriousness of honoring father and mother?

Accepted Answer

This law flows from the command to honor father and mother. Here, God treats stubborn rebellion against parents as a capital offense. That shows that honoring parents is not just about manners, but about recognizing the authority God gives in the family. When a son will not obey, even for his own good, and rejects all discipline, he is breaking more than a house rule. He is throwing off an order God Himself set in place, so the law treats this as a very serious kind of evil.

Question 8

Was any disobedient child in Israel stoned under this law?

Accepted Answer

No, the passage does not speak about every child who disobeys or talks back. It describes a settled pattern: a son who is stubborn, rebellious, will not obey father or mother, and will not listen even after they have chastened him. He is known for being a glutton and a drunkard. The parents must both agree to bring him, and the elders must hear the case. This sets the bar very high. Faithful readers have even said this kind of case was rare, because loving parents and wise judges would be slow and careful.

Question 9

How should believers today think about such a hard law?

Accepted Answer

This law can feel harsh to modern readers. It helps to see what it reveals about God and about sin. God takes family order and respect for parents very seriously, and He treats stubborn, unrepentant sin as dangerous to everyone, not just the person doing it. At the same time, the law builds in many checks: long-standing disobedience, both parents agreeing, a public hearing before elders. Believers today can see in this how serious sin is, and also be thankful for God’s patience and the call to repentance.

Deuteronomy 21:18

¶ If a man have a stubborn and rebellious son, which will not obey the voice of his father, or the voice of his mother, and that, when they have chastened him, will not hearken unto them:

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¶ If a man have a stubborn and rebellious son, which will not obey the voice of his father, or the voice of his mother, and that, when they have chastened him, will not hearken unto them:

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