Question 1

Why did David’s men insist that he not go into the battle with them?

Accepted Answer

David wanted to go into battle with his troops, but the people begged him to stay in the city. They said he was worth more than many soldiers and knew the enemy mainly wanted him. If David fell, the whole cause would likely fall with him. By staying back, he could send help where needed and keep the kingdom’s hope alive. Their words show their deep respect for David and their sense that a leader’s safety can matter more than his presence on the front line.

Question 2

What does it mean that David said, “Deal gently for my sake with the young man Absalom”?

Accepted Answer

When David told Joab, Abishai, and Ittai to deal gently with Absalom, he was pleading as a father, not only as a king. Absalom had rebelled and brought war on the nation, yet David still loved him and hoped for mercy instead of a harsh death. His words show the pull of parental love, even when a child has done great wrong. The whole army heard this command, so everyone knew David wanted his son spared if at all possible.

Question 3

What is the meaning of the battle taking place in the wood of Ephraim?

Accepted Answer

The battle happening in the wood of Ephraim is not just a detail about location. The rough forest land worked against Absalom’s larger army. The fighting scattered across the countryside, and the trees, ravines, and hidden dangers killed more men than swords did. This shows that God can use even the land and confusion of battle to bring down those who fight against his chosen king. Victory did not come from numbers, but from God’s rule over every part of the world.

Question 4

Why did Joab kill Absalom even after hearing the king’s command?

Accepted Answer

Joab knew very clearly that David had ordered everyone to spare Absalom. Still, when he heard Absalom was hanging helpless in the oak, he chose to kill him. Joab likely believed that as long as Absalom lived, the kingdom would never be safe and rebellion could rise again. His act shows harsh, cold judgment rather than mercy. This raises hard questions about obeying orders, seeking the good of the nation, and how far someone may go when they think severe action will bring peace.

Question 5

Why did the first soldier refuse Joab’s offer to kill Absalom?

Accepted Answer

The soldier who first saw Absalom hanging in the tree refused to kill him, even when Joab offered money and a reward. He remembered David’s clear command in the hearing of all: no one was to harm Absalom. He feared both disobeying the king and the guilt of killing the king’s son. He also knew Joab himself would likely turn on him afterward. His answer shows a conscience that values obedience and life over money, and a sober sense of how such a crime would end for him.

Question 6

What is the meaning of Absalom being caught in the oak tree by his head?

Accepted Answer

Absalom tried to escape on a mule, but his head got caught in the branches of a great oak, leaving him hanging between heaven and earth while the mule ran on. His proud image, helped by his famous hair, turns against him here. He is stuck, helpless, in full view of his enemies, unable to flee or fight. This strange death scene shows how quickly pride and rebellion can fall. The one who tried to take the throne from his father ends up trapped and exposed, with no one to rescue him.

Question 7

Why was Absalom thrown into a pit and covered with a heap of stones?

Accepted Answer

After Joab’s men killed Absalom, they threw his body into a large pit in the forest and piled a very great heap of stones over him. This kind of burial was a sign of shame and a warning. It marked him as a rebel who had brought ruin and sorrow on the nation. While Absalom had once tried to win the hearts of Israel and set himself up as a great man, his end was hidden under stones in a forest, showing how empty his proud plans turned out to be.

Question 8

What is the significance of Absalom’s pillar called “Absalom’s place”?

Accepted Answer

Before his death, Absalom had set up a pillar for himself in the king’s valley. He said he had no son to keep his name alive, so he gave his own name to this monument. The story then tells how he died in shame and was buried in a pit far from that pillar. The contrast is sharp. He wanted a lasting name and honor, but his memory is tied to rebellion and a disgraceful end. His pillar reminds us how human pride can chase a name for itself without seeking God’s approval.

2 Samuel 18:1

And David numbered the people that were with him, and set captains of thousands and captains of hundreds over them.

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2 Samuel 18:1

And David numbered the people that were with him, and set captains of thousands and captains of hundreds over them.

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