Question 1

Why did Absalom live two years in Jerusalem without seeing the king's face?

Accepted Answer

Absalom had been allowed to return from Geshur after killing his brother, but David still held back from full reconciliation. So Absalom lived in Jerusalem for two years without being allowed into the king’s presence. This showed that David had not forgotten the seriousness of Absalom’s crime. Absalom was back in the land and in his own house, but not restored to favor at court. Instead of softening his heart, this distance made Absalom restless and more focused on getting his old position back.

Question 2

Why did Absalom burn Joab's barley field in this passage?

Accepted Answer

Absalom first sent to Joab twice, asking him to come so he could be sent on to the king. Joab refused, likely knowing David was not ready to receive Absalom. Rather than accept this or approach more humbly, Absalom ordered his servants to burn Joab’s barley field that lay near his own. By attacking Joab’s property, he forced Joab to come and ask why this had been done. It was a bold, spiteful act that showed Absalom’s pride and willingness to harm others to get what he wanted.

Question 3

What does Absalom mean when he says, "If there be any iniquity in me, let him kill me"?

Accepted Answer

When Absalom says, “If there be any iniquity in me, let him kill me,” he is pressing Joab to get him an audience with David. He argues that if he is truly guilty, David should just put him to death instead of keeping him half-restored and shut out from court. This sounds bold, even defiant. He does not really own his guilt in killing his brother, and he likely counts on David’s love to keep him safe. It shows more frustration and pride than honest repentance.

Question 4

How does David respond when Absalom finally comes before him?

Accepted Answer

After Joab speaks to David, the king calls for Absalom. Absalom comes in, bows with his face to the ground before his father, showing outward respect and submission. David responds by kissing Absalom. In their culture, this kiss is a sign of favor and reconciliation. It means David is receiving him again and not treating him as an enemy. This tender act comes from a father’s love, even though Absalom has not truly shown a humble or changed heart.

Question 5

What does this passage show about Absalom's heart and motives?

Accepted Answer

In this passage Absalom cares more about his standing at court than about his sin. Two years of quiet life in Jerusalem could have led him to repentance, but instead he grows impatient. He commands Joab as if he has full rights, and when ignored, he burns Joab’s field to get attention. His words about seeing the king and being killed if guilty sound brave, but he does not confess wrong. His actions fit a proud, ambitious man who wants power, not a broken son seeking mercy.

Question 6

What does this part of the story teach about David as a father and king?

Accepted Answer

David shows a torn heart. As king, he had kept Absalom at a distance because of the murder of his brother. As a father, he still loves Absalom deeply. When Absalom finally appears, David chooses to receive him and seals it with a kiss. This kindness, however, comes before any clear repentance from Absalom. It shows a soft, loving fatherly heart, but it also hints at future trouble, because David’s affection overrules strict justice and leaves an unbroken son close to power.

Question 7

Why is Absalom's burning of Joab's field important in the story?

Accepted Answer

Burning Joab’s field is important because it shows how Absalom handles being crossed. Instead of gratitude for being brought back or patience under discipline, he reacts with a damaging act against the very man who once helped him. It also shows how he uses force and fear to move people, not gentle appeal. This event helps explain how Absalom later wins people over and stirs up conflict in the kingdom. The story lets us see his character before his later rebellion fully unfolds.

Question 8

How can this passage about Absalom and David apply to family conflict today?

Accepted Answer

This passage shows a strained relationship where wrong has been done, partial steps are taken, but real heart change is missing. Absalom wants full privilege without real confession. David loves his son and cannot bring himself to punish him, yet he also avoids true, honest dealing with the sin. In families today, similar patterns can appear: hurt is real, distance grows, and people push for normal life again without addressing the wrong. The story invites us to seek both truth and mercy, not shallow peace.

2 Samuel 14:28

¶ So Absalom dwelt two full years in Jerusalem, and saw not the king’s face.

Absalom Reconciled to David

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Absalom Reconciled to David

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