Question 1

What does it mean that God "pleaded the cause" of David’s reproach?

Accepted Answer

When David says that the Lord pleaded the cause of his reproach, he is saying that God Himself stepped in to answer the insult and wrong that Nabal had done to him. Nabal had mocked David and refused to help him, even though David had protected his men. David had been ready to take revenge, but God stopped him and later struck Nabal. So instead of David clearing his own name with the sword, God took up his case and showed that David had been treated wrongly. It is God showing justice on David’s behalf.

Question 2

Why does David thank God for Nabal’s death in this passage?

Accepted Answer

David is not simply happy that a man has died. He thanks God because he sees two things. First, God has upheld justice by bringing Nabal’s own sin back on his head, instead of letting his wickedness go on as if it did not matter. Second, God has kept David from doing wrong himself. David had planned to kill Nabal and all the males in his house. God stopped him through Abigail’s wisdom, and then dealt with Nabal in His own way. David is grateful that he was spared both guilt and shame.

Question 3

Who is Abigail in this passage, and why does David want to marry her?

Accepted Answer

Abigail is Nabal’s widow. Earlier, she had acted with wisdom and humility, bringing food to David and his men and speaking calmly when David was ready to attack Nabal’s house. David saw both her character and her faith, and she had also spoken about God making David ruler over Israel. After Nabal dies, David sends messengers to ask her to be his wife. He sees that she is both wise and godly, and he believes God has a future for him as king. She agrees and goes to him with her attendants.

Question 4

What does Abigail mean when she offers to wash the feet of David’s servants?

Accepted Answer

When Abigail says she is willing to be a servant to wash the feet of David’s servants, she is speaking very humbly. Washing feet was one of the lowest tasks in a household. By saying this, she is not just using pretty words. She is showing that she does not see herself as too important or too rich to serve. She feels unworthy of the honor of marrying David and says she would be glad even to serve those who serve him. This humble heart fits with how she had already acted toward David.

Question 5

Why did Abigail hurry to go with David’s messengers and become his wife?

Accepted Answer

Abigail does not delay once she hears David’s proposal. She respects David’s character from how he spoke and acted when she met him. She also believes God will one day make him ruler over Israel, even though at this moment he is a hunted man who does not have a secure home. Her quick response shows both faith and readiness. She takes her servants and rides to join David, not worrying first about his present poverty, but trusting God’s promise over David’s life and being willing to share his hardships as well as his future honor.

Question 6

Who is Ahinoam of Jezreel, and why is she mentioned with Abigail?

Accepted Answer

Ahinoam of Jezreel is another woman whom David has taken as a wife. She is mentioned here to show that at this point David has more than one wife: both Abigail and Ahinoam. This reflects the customs of that time, where it was common for men, even godly men, to have several wives, though this did not match God’s original pattern of one man and one woman. The mention of Ahinoam alongside Abigail helps us see what David’s family life looked like in these early years before he became king over all Israel.

Question 7

Why had Saul given Michal, David’s wife, to Phalti son of Laish?

Accepted Answer

Michal was David’s first wife and Saul’s daughter. When David had to flee because Saul was trying to kill him, Saul took Michal and gave her to another man, Phalti son of Laish from Gallim. This was meant to hurt David and break the family tie between them, so Saul would not be seen as David’s father-in-law or feel held back from chasing him. By doing this, Saul was trying to cut off any claim David might seem to have through marriage into the royal house. It shows how deeply Saul opposed David by this time.

Question 8

What does this passage teach about revenge and trusting God with wrongs?

Accepted Answer

This passage shows that God is able to deal with those who wrong us without our taking matters into our own hands. David had been insulted and refused help, and in anger he planned to kill Nabal and his men. God stopped him through Abigail’s wise words, and then later judged Nabal Himself. David looks back and praises God for both judging Nabal and keeping him from sin. The lesson is that when we are mistreated, we should hold back from payback and hand the situation to God, trusting Him to see and act in His time.

Question 9

Why is David’s having more than one wife mentioned, and how should we view it?

Accepted Answer

The passage simply states that David had Abigail and Ahinoam as wives, and Michal had been given to another man. This shows the brokenness in family life at that time. While such arrangements were accepted in the culture, they do not match God’s original design of one man and one woman joined together. The story does not praise David for having several wives; it just records what happened. We can see that sin, broken promises, and human choices all left their mark, even on David’s life, and remember that God’s pattern for marriage is still good.

1 Samuel 25:39

David Marries Abigail

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