Question 1

Why did Saul offer his daughters Merab and Michal to David?

Accepted Answer

Saul’s offers sound kind on the surface, but his heart motive was very different. He saw that God was with David and that people loved David, and he grew afraid and jealous. By offering first Merab, then Michal, he hoped to tie David to his house while using the marriage promise to push David into dangerous battles. Saul even said he wanted the Philistines’ hand to be against David. So the marriage offers were meant as traps, not as honest rewards.

Question 2

Why does David say, “Who am I” to be the king’s son in law?

Accepted Answer

David’s answer shows his deep humility. Even though he had already killed Goliath and won battles, he still saw himself as a poor man from a simple family, not as someone who deserved to marry into the royal house. He did not grab honor or act entitled. His question, “Who am I, and what is my life… that I should be son in law to the king?” shows that he understood how high that place was and felt unworthy of it in himself.

Question 3

What is the meaning of Saul asking for 100 Philistine foreskins as a dowry?

Accepted Answer

In that culture, a bride price was usually money or gifts. Saul twisted this by asking for 100 Philistine foreskins, which meant David had to kill 100 enemy soldiers and prove it. Saul’s real goal was not a normal dowry, but to put David in such danger that he would likely be killed in battle. He thought the Philistines would do his work for him. Instead, David, trusting God, went out, killed 200, and returned alive, which only increased his honor.

Question 4

What does this passage teach about God’s providence and protection?

Accepted Answer

All through this story, Saul plans evil for David. He lies, manipulates, and uses both family and war to try to destroy him. But each time, God turns Saul’s plan around. The battles Saul hoped would kill David only show David’s courage and skill. The marriage Saul meant as a snare actually brings David into the royal family. Saul sees that the Lord is with David, and that is why David keeps standing and growing, even while surrounded by danger and hate.

Question 5

Why was Saul afraid of David after giving Michal to him?

Accepted Answer

After David brought back the Philistine foreskins and married Michal, Saul saw two things clearly. First, the Lord was with David in battle and in life. Second, even Saul’s own daughter truly loved David. Instead of softening Saul’s heart, this made his fear and jealousy worse. He realized he could not stop David’s rise or break the bond that was forming around him. So his fear hardened into ongoing hatred, and Saul became David’s enemy continually.

Question 6

What does it mean that David “behaved himself more wisely” than Saul’s servants?

Accepted Answer

This means David acted with good sense, self-control, and faith in every situation. While Saul was driven by jealousy and anger, David kept serving, fighting, and speaking in a way that honored God and respected others. He did not boast about his victories or fight back against Saul’s tricks. His wise behavior made people respect him more and more, so that his name was “much set by,” meaning he was highly valued and trusted in Israel.

Question 7

How does David’s humility and courage in this passage apply today?

Accepted Answer

David shows that a person can be both humble and bold at the same time. He does not think highly of himself or chase status, yet he is eager to serve and face hard tasks when they come. Today, this encourages believers to accept lowliness in their own eyes, not demanding honor, while still being ready to work, sacrifice, and step into danger if God calls. It also reminds us to trust God’s care rather than fear people’s schemes or their opinions.

Question 8

What does this story show about the danger of jealousy and envy in the heart?

Accepted Answer

Saul’s jealousy starts with fear that David might take his place, then grows into lies, manipulation, and plans for murder. Instead of repenting when he sees God with David, he hardens his heart. This shows how envy can twist a person’s thoughts so badly that they use even family and holy things, like marriage and battles for Israel, as tools to hurt others. It warns us to fight jealousy early, confess it, and ask God to help us rejoice in the good he gives others.

1 Samuel 18:17

¶ And Saul said to David, Behold my elder daughter Merab, her will I give thee to wife: only be thou valiant for me, and fight the Lord’S battles. For Saul said, Let not mine hand be upon him, but let the hand of the Philistines be upon him.

David Marries Michal

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1 Samuel 18:17

¶ And Saul said to David, Behold my elder daughter Merab, her will I give thee to wife: only be thou valiant for me, and fight the Lord’S battles. For Saul said, Let not mine hand be upon him, but let the hand of the Philistines be upon him.

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David Marries Michal

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