Question 1

Why did David send messengers to Hanun after Nahash died?

Accepted Answer

David sent messengers to Hanun because he wanted to show kindness after Hanun’s father, Nahash, died. Nahash had shown kindness to David in the past, and David did not forget this. Even though the Ammonites were not Israelites and did not share Israel’s worship, David still chose to act as a good neighbor. He sent his servants to comfort Hanun in his loss, offering respect and sympathy. This shows a heart that remembers past help and tries to repay it when there is a chance.

Question 2

Why did Hanun and the Ammonite princes suspect David’s motives?

Accepted Answer

The princes of Ammon thought David’s kindness was just a cover for spying. They told Hanun that David’s servants had really come to search and overthrow the land. This shows how people who have evil or fearful hearts can easily imagine evil in others, even when there is no proof. Instead of seeing David’s visit as honest comfort, they treated it like a trick. Hanun chose to listen to this suspicious advice, and that choice turned a peaceful visit into the start of a long conflict.

Question 3

What is the significance of shaving the servants’ beards and cutting their garments?

Accepted Answer

In that culture a man’s beard was a sign of honor. To shave it off was to shame him publicly. Cutting off their clothes at the back made their bodies partly exposed, which added to their disgrace. Hanun’s act was not just a joke, but a deep insult to the men and to David who sent them. It broke the usual respect shown to messengers between nations. This explains why the men felt so ashamed and why this act pushed the situation toward war between Israel and Ammon.

Question 4

Why did David tell his shamed servants to stay at Jericho until their beards grew back?

Accepted Answer

David cared about the honor of his servants. When he heard how they had been treated, he sent to meet them instead of making them come straight home in shame. He told them to stay at Jericho until their beards grew again. This gave them time to recover their dignity before facing others in Jerusalem. It shows that good leaders do not only use their servants, they also protect them and feel with them when they suffer loss, even when that loss comes while doing their duty.

Question 5

Why did the Ammonites hire chariots and horsemen from distant lands?

Accepted Answer

Once the Ammonites realized how badly they had offended David, they knew he would not ignore it. Instead of seeking peace, they chose to prepare for war. They paid a huge amount of silver to bring in chariots, horsemen, and the king of Maachah with his people from places like Mesopotamia, Syria-maachah, and Zobah. By doing this they tried to make themselves stronger through foreign help, but the story shows that no amount of military help can fix a wrong heart or a bad cause.

Question 6

Who was Joab and why did David send him and the mighty men?

Accepted Answer

Joab was the commander of David’s army. When David heard that the Ammonites and their hired allies had gathered for battle, he sent Joab and all the host of the mighty men. These were experienced warriors who had fought many battles for Israel. Sending Joab showed that David took the threat seriously. Joab’s task was to face the armies that had gathered before Medeba and at the gate of the city. This move turned the situation from a diplomatic insult into open war, led by David’s trusted commander.

Question 7

What does this passage show about misjudging the intentions of others?

Accepted Answer

This passage is a clear picture of what happens when people misjudge someone’s intentions. David meant to show kindness and comfort Hanun, but Ammon’s leaders assumed the worst. Their suspicion led to a public insult, which then led to fear, to hiring foreign armies, and finally to war. It shows how a wrong reading of another person’s heart can grow quickly and hurt many people. It also warns us not to let jealousy, fear, or a guilty mind twist simple acts of kindness into imagined threats.

Question 8

How does this story speak to how believers should treat neighbors and enemies today?

Accepted Answer

This story encourages believers to act with kindness, even toward those outside their own group, like David did toward Hanun. It also shows the value of remembering past kindness and trying to repay it. At the same time, it warns against acting from suspicion and pride, like the Ammonite princes. For believers today, this can mean choosing to assume the best instead of the worst, honoring those who serve us, and seeking peace where possible. When wronged, it also reminds us to let God judge justly rather than answering evil with more evil in our hearts.

1 Chronicles 19:1

Now it came to pass after this, that Nahash the king of the children of Ammon died, and his son reigned in his stead.

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1 Chronicles 19:1

Now it came to pass after this, that Nahash the king of the children of Ammon died, and his son reigned in his stead.

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